MARTINSVILLE
The Martinsville Youth and Development Center hosted its inaugural fundraising dinner Tuesday. It was an evening of reflection and celebration of the six years it took to get there.
“Many people said this wasn’t possible, but on our journey the last six years of building this youth center, businesses would say, ‘We’ll donate to you once you get open.’ Well, we need money to get open,” Steve Keefe, president of the board of directors for the youth center, said. “We’re here in lieu of what all our naysayers said and we’re proud of that. As I stand here tonight, there’s many, many people I need to thank for myself and our board.”
Keefe took the time to thank the board members for all they had done to make the center a reality and to help keep the doors open. One early supporter Keefe thanked was Jill Curry, who until recently worked for the Indiana Office of Community and Rural Affairs. Keefe credited Curry for her assistance in writing a grant to get funding for the center.
“I botched up the first application I did so bad on asking for a half-million dollar grant that I begged her to come here, that I’d buy her lunch if she met me here in this unheated, cold and dilapidated building and help teach me how to write an OCRA grant application,” Keefe said.
Keefe said there were plans to name the center in honor of the Tedrow family for their donations which helped make the center possible. Keefe introduced Ron Tedrow to say few words regarding the honor.
Tedrow said his family was grateful, but it was an honor which should go to someone else.
“Fundraising is the lifeblood any organization like this. We’re here tonight to raise money. Your gifts are critical and they are appreciated. But as a story to tell, ‘They gave money,’ it doesn’t really resonate. It doesn’t inspire. It doesn’t give you goosebumps. That dog won’t hunt,” Tedrow said. “So let’s compare that story to another story. The story of a man who devoted most of his adult life in service to the youth of Martinsville. He helped as many as 2,000 young boys, most of them underprivileged, over a span of many years. From his modest earnings as a porter at the sanitariums, be built a club house, he taught them right from wrong, he took them to church. He showed them that he cared.
“Of course I’m talking about Albert Merritt,” Tedrow said. “Now this was a black man in a white town; he must have encountered some resistance, but he carried on. He showed that courage and that character and in other words, he taught by example. Now that’s a story that’s been told around here for the best part of a century and I suppose it’ll be told long after I’m gone. And so, ladies and gentlemen, that’s why we’re naming the center (after) Albert Merritt.”
Mark Jaynes, a native son of Morgan County and the current voice of the Indianapolis 500, spoke next. Jaynes thanked those in attendance for all they do for the children of Martinsville and said the work being done at the center was vitally important.
“Each life you touch is in the early stages of a journey, regardless of their age, their socioeconomic background or environment, all have dreams and they have the desire to achieve those dreams,” Jaynes said. “They simply lack the tools, not the talent or skill, but they lack things like dedication, commitment and drive and maturity. And I think that’s where we as adults with our influence can come and help kids.”
He cited the influence his elementary school principal had on his career path, saying he was a big Reds fan and wanted to be a professional baseball player. The principal said after seeing him play for three days, he should rethink things.
“Now, before the sting of that could set in, fortunately he said, ‘With your obvious love of sports and inability to keep your mouth shut in class, you ought to think about a career in broadcast or journalism,’” Jaynes said, adding his principal advised him on how to research those careers and contact various broadcasters, disc jockeys and others.
Jaynes said there were other teachers who took him under his wing, including his driving instructor Dave Oberle. Jaynes said Oberle helped Jaynes get a position as a manager with the Monrovia High School football team.
Jaynes had to choose between going on a family vacation or continuing on as a manager; he chose the latter. He also picked up a job calling in football and basketball scores to WCBK, and if he missed his deadline, he would not be paid.
“I didn’t realize it at the time, but I was starting to get the tools I’d needed to have things pay off for me someday,” Jaynes said.
He urged those in attendance to invest time in the children who came to the center, as others had done for him.
“Be honest with them, but do so in a way which challenges them but make sure it encourages them as well. Don’t be afraid to let them fail, just don’t let them quit and if they do, they’ll never know how close they came to succeeding and that’s why you can’t let them quit,” Jaynes said.
Martinsville Youth and Development Center is located at 165 Morton Ave. and can be reached at martinsvilleyouthcenter@gmail.com, shelby@martinsvilleyouthcenter.org and 765-558-8137. The rec center can be reached at 765-558-8145. For more information, visit martinsvilleyouthcenter.org.