PARAGON
Just over a month ago, Paragon resident April Mascoe got one of those calls that no one ever wants to get. It was a hospital in Bloomington and they were calling about her brother.
“My husband got the call,” April said “And he was like, ‘Yeah, I know who Mike is. That’s my brother-in-law.’ And they said we needed to get to the hospital as soon as possible, that there had been a car accident.”
“At that time, I was thinking, my brother has to be OK enough to give ‘em our phone number because nobody knows our phone number, but they had found out who we were through Facebook, trying to contact family members. And so we got the call, and we got to the hospital and found out.”
The Mascoes — Michael, Rhonda, Grace and Mikey — and Rhonda’s daughter Zoey Bennington were traveling to a softball tournament in Columbus early on the morning of April 29 when a Chevy pickup, driven by Timothy Gill, struck the family’s Hyundai Santa Fe in a head-on collision.
Michael, Rhonda and Zoey died from injuries they sustained from the crash. Eight-year-old Mikey and 10-year-old Grace survived but had injuries of their own.
“It’s a miracle that they walked away from that accident like they did with as minimal injury as possible,” April said. “They did have to do surgery on little Mikey, on his leg, but fortunately, they did not have to do surgery for Grace. They spent three days in Riley (Hospital for Children) and now we’re just doing their recovery and trying to get through this and adjusted to a new normal if that’s possible.”
April and her husband Mark has just seen the family the previous day.
“We had left their house at 10:30 the night before. And my brother, every time he’d seen me, he’d always — you know he’s a big guy — he would always pick me up with his one hand give me the biggest bear hug, and (say), ‘You know I love you, sis,’” Mascoe said. “So I’m thankful that I go that last hug from him.”
“He was my little brother, but he was rock, my comfort zone. He would, you know if I was down, always try and pick me up and tell me, ‘It’s going to be OK, sis,’ and ‘You’re strong, you got this,’ and tell me he loves me and stuff.”
And during that final visit, Mike made a promise to Mark.
“What is ironic is my brother had told my husband, ‘Brother,’ he said, ‘I’ll make you a promise if you make me a promise. If anything ever happens to me, make sure that hymns are playing in the background and you’re reading Bible verses to me and make sure my kids are taken care of and I’ll do the same for you,’” Mascoe said.
“That’s the last conversation my husband and my brother had. It’s just kind of ironic that that conversation took place, and then hours later, the tragic accident happened.”
A close-knit family
April was the middle child growing up, she had one older brother, Jerry, and one younger brother, Mike.
“My brothers liked to pick on me a lot, but we were really close,” Mascoe said. “My brothers would take me out in the yard and show me how to play football and just boy things and hang out with them. We were always very close growing up. And they would definitely pick on me a lot.”
That closeness continued into adulthood. April saw her brother two to three times a week. Jerry and Mike worked together at Townsend Tree Service. It was through her younger brother that she met her husband Mark.
“They’ve been very close. They work out together,” Mascoe said. “They’re both very passionate in lifting weights and stuff like that. That’s where that all began.”
Faith was another thing that bonded the siblings and their families. Mike and his family attended the same church as April — Paragon Bible Baptist Church — before they moved to Spencer and began attending Millgrove Bible Baptist.
That closeness allowed them to weather some hard times as a family, such as when their mother passed away in November 2016. Mascoe said that her younger brother was especially supportive during that time.
She said it was hard to pick a favorite memory, because there were so many of them.
“And there’s just so many different memories with my brother. I’ll cherish them all. We used to always get together on the Fourth of July and do fireworks and family cookouts,” Mascoe said. “Those are memories that I’ll cherish as well. Forever. I don’t really have one particular favorite memory, because they’re all my favorite. I love my little brother. He was the baby, but it’s just been kind of hard.”
The Aftermath
April described her brother, sister-in-law and niece as kindhearted, caring and empathetic people.
“My brother was a big, teddy bear. He’s what I would call a gentle giant. He had a passion for sports and loved the Lord,” April said. “And he definitely was always about his kids. Wherever he was at, his kids would be. They were a close-knit family, tried to always keep them active. But my brother, he never met a stranger. People just took to him. He’s always sweet and would go out of his way to help anybody that he could.”
She said that Rhonda was sweet and very friendly
“She had a heart of gold, compassion for everyone, would be there to help anybody. Always had a smile on her face. And would always be there to help at any time. And she was a lovely lady,” April said.
Her niece was in the process of finishing her first year at Vincennes University when the crash occurred.
“She was going to school for electrical engineering. Very, very smart girl. Very, very beautiful and kind-hearted and just would help anybody that she could. She was amazing, very amazing.”
April said the funeral brought her some closure, but the whole thing still seems unbelievable.
“This whole time has been, it’s like a dream or a fog,” April said. “I haven’t really processed the whole thing. Being able to see my brother did help with giving me some kind of closure because when it happened, they wouldn’t allow me to see him.”
“It’s just heartbreaking and it just seems so unreal. So as far as real closure, that’s just going to take some time with the healing. My main focus and my only concern is now for the children, their well being and getting them through this and creating a new normal for them.”
April and Mark are now the temporary legal guardians of Mikey and Grace. April said that the two were doing well, despite everything they had been through.
Mikey, a second-grader, and Gracie, a fourth-grader, returned to Spencer Elementary School earlier this month.
“We anticipated them being there for only a short time, but they decided they wanted to stay the whole day and it was a last-minute thing,” April said.
The school treated it like a normal school day, and the children responded well to it.
“They had a really good day and they were really happy and they were thankful and they said, ‘Can we go back tomorrow?’ so they did,” April said.
Currently, the family all lives together in a three-bedroom home.
The kids are sharing bedrooms with my daughter and my son,” April said. “And they’re teenagers. The kids are 10 and 8. So everything is a bit cramped.”
April said that her daughter Sarah, a rising senior at Martinsville High School, has been a big help with her cousins.
“She never once, not for one minute, left those kids’ side from the time they got to the hospital in Bloomington until they were released from Riley,” April said. “My daughter stayed the whole entire time.”
“The kids really are clinging to my daughter, they’re really close. They’ve got a special bond with them. But even before then they would say, ‘You’re my favorite cousin,’ ‘Sarah’s my favorite cousin.’ They’re really close and I’m glad for that.”
Also living with them are April’s in-laws
“I’m a caregiver for my mother and father-in-law, who’s 91-years-old,” April said. “And he had a tragic car accident that caused him to have a brain injury and caused him to have a few strokes. So now he’s completely bedridden and needs care all the time.”
“Thankfully we do have hospice and nurses and home health that come out and care for him so that eases a lot of the burden there. So we’re just all adjusting to what has happened, trying to process it and get through it moment by moment, that’s all you really can do.”
To ease the rooming situation, they decided to add on two bedrooms to the home.
“And the biggest thing is trying to get two bedrooms on to our house,” April said “So that have their own area, their own space so they can feel more comfortable and be able to just process everything and be together as a family.”
Community support
In May, April made a post on Facebook seeking recommendations for reliable builders or companies that would be able to add on the rooms.
“I’m not asking for hand outs, what I am asking for is someone or company that can help us get this done with a contract that enables us to pay biweekly or monthly,” April wrote.
She was shocked by the outpouring of support and recommendations from members of the community.
“We have an overwhelming amount of support, I had never dreamed for recommendations would turn in to what it has,” April said. “We’ve had people that are volunteering and donating the materials from the ground up to build the bedrooms for the kids so that they have their own place.”
Members of the Demand Command Baseball and Softball League have also rallied around the Mascoes. Anthony Bonds, Grace’s former coach started a GoFundMe was started for the family and two hash tags — #playsoftballwithGrace and #playballwithMikey — were created to show support on social media as well as two shirts featuring the hashtag. An account was setup with the Owen County State Bank with the legal name of PlaysoftballwithGrace LLC.
Jo Smith, a member of April’s church, reached out to her to help her set up a BMO Harris Bank Account and a fundraiser through GiveHope.com to help the family with expenses.
On May 20, the Paragon Lions Club held a BBQ fundraiser in honor of the family. Christina Patton Correll, secretary and treasurer of the Lions Club, organized the event with the family’s permission.
The event raised over $600 for the family and close to a 100 people attended the event, according to Corell.
“That was for the family’s immediate needs. Everybody knew that this was for them for right now,” Correll said.
Covering most of the cost of the event was Correll’s real estate company, Correll Realty. She was granted permission by the president of the Lions Club to host the event at their space.
The owners of Holy Smoke Hog Roast, Roger and Mary Lawrence, donated pulled pork for the event.
“When I called her to get prices, she talked to her husband and said, ‘You know what, we’ll just donate,’” Correll said. “I wasn’t calling for a donation, I was calling to shop around, see different prices. So she donated the pulled pork.”
She decided to do something to help the family, because it was similar to something that happened to her family.
My grandparents were killed in an accident back in 1971,” Corell said. “They were passengers in a car, the car crossed over and hit them. Killed both of them.”
“My mom was 27 at the time. I was 3. So I was too young to know really what was going on. But I thought of my mother at that time, because my uncle was only 15. And so my aunt and uncle had to take care of him.”
She felt sympathy for Grace and Mike and the lost of their family members.
“I could relate to it, having lost my grandparents,” Correll said.
Those interested in helping out the Mascoes can donate to their GiveHope campaign at givehope.com/Gracie-and-Mikey-Fund, gofundme.com/playsoftballwithgrace or gofundme.com/urwzbf-playsoftballwithgrace
Checks can also be made out to playsoftballwithGrace LLC and set to P.O. Box 641, Spencer, IN 4746.